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Kibosh/Kybosh

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How we visualize the world   

What We Do at Naturally Blessed Foundation

Here at Naturally Blessed, we teach and empower people to understand that they are worthy of Life , liberty and the pursuit of happiness; as it is written in the constitution, and no matter how much life changes, and no matter how rude people treated them, that they are still valuable entities in the makers, 'God's' eyes. We can bring out the feeling of belonging in even the lowly and poor individuals who feels hopeless, lonely and heartbroken. The video- 'Ending poverty and hunger'- at the top of the page tells about poverty around us and ask us to help make a change in our world. Poverty should not define us in any way, because there is a God who cares about us; and because with the right circumstances, and self development we can all rise to become our best selves. Showing love and being hospital-able and kind is the deepest and nicest gift one can give to another person. Having faith and a willingness to do the work on ourselves first, is the proper way to build trust in ourselves and others. It can and it will work out; if one by one we endeavor to do the work of love and righteousness, to be spiritually grounded, to find personal growth from within ourselves and to impart this gift to others.

What should we do to remove terror? Embracing a new paradigm. 'Above all clothe yourself with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony' (Colossians 3: 14) NLT

Taking a stand to be proactive instead of reactive : effective approaches for healing 

 I want to empower people to dream higher, and to know that there are no limits to what they can achieve. Our goal is to remove barriers, so that our communities will not be hopeless and afraid and to be able to grow. We want to be able to transform the lives of people. We are driven with a purpose, to revitalize and encourage them to find meaning and purpose in their lives. We are dedicated to help people find balance and stability in an increasingly complex world. Our philosophy is to enlighten, help through services and strengthen people to succeed, to work towards their well being, and to achieve their dreams. We help meet the specific needs of people who knock on our door and we need your help in continuing these services. We also give support to striving communities here in America and also around the world. We endeavor to be the change that we want to see in the world! - We demonstrate professionalism: To create a sense of respect and well being, and have achieved an outgoing attitude that is welcoming. To be helpful, eager to do something nice for someone else. To be deliberate in our positive contribution, in bringing love, joy, smiles, because even a smile is contagious and healing to others. To show kindness; practice virtues: to lessen and remove mental stress. Practice forgiveness: to help in healing emotional trauma, to rewire the brain and bring relief to the spirit; because this is the science of well-being and the way to happiness.- Ask me if there is anything else that you would like to know? One way we can be reached is through my email: goddessofharmony@outlook.com or gmcharlemagne@gmail.com

Explaining spiritual warfare

There is much devastation going on in the world right now.  We are facing a pandemic, war, famine, poverty, homelessness, sickness, long-suffering, illness, terrorism, racial injustice. Nations are holding other nations hostage, some held in jail through conspiracy, enslavement,  and other forms of discrimination. On a spiritual level there is always war. There is spiritual wickedness and evil coming from high places, coming from establishments, people put in power, leaders placed over us and demonic entities that possess humankind, placing strong holds, curses, and binding people under their will. But we can have faith to stand all those crazy, inhumane hopeless situations. We can stay in a divine place having the breastplate of salvation in order to stand in those great, extraordinary/trying days of uncertainty. We have to maintain a mental decision to be blessed, to remain good and grounded spiritually even through hard times and moments of fear. 

Our faith will open the doors for God to step into our lives and administer to us. I experience miracles after miracles, and I am able to get messages from God, able to get answers to my questions and doubts, and that is because of my faith. We believe that the science of miracles and of well being, is for us to seek to live virtuously, to desire to be pure in heart, to practice: prayer, devotion, kindness, compassion, meekness, humility, long-suffering. To contribute to the well being of other people, to bring joy, laughter, pleasant memories instead of damning grief . Some happy existence comes through helping, and creates value for Humanity. 

Become a wholesome light worker: endeavor and promise to become an expert in service. 

We are all connected if we focus on the connection that matters most.

Avoid foolish mistakes, life gets more complicated and difficult when we lack character

  Your reality and the way you experience life will depend on how well you can control your emotions, the kind of energy that you are manufacturing and using, and also at what frequencies that you are consuming that energy source and giving to others.  When your soul's frequency is coming from a source of love, compassion, empathy, forgiveness, appreciation, meaning from a place of virtue we are led to become a better version of ourselves, we experience joy and happiness. We begin to feel happy with ourselves, to be contented with where we are and feeling positive about whatever is going on in our lives. We can choose to experience a new person by assuming a new personality. We can let circumstances rule our thoughts or we can take the responsibility to create our lives, one without shame, or victimized by our circumstances.  

  We can make the choice to spend the remaining years that we have and use it in meaningful ways. We can choose to no longer become victim; but instead become a motivator, influencer, who cannot be held back by strongholds, but become that person, one who can rewrite their story and shift their train of thought from being sorrowful, to one of joy, laughter and light. Ordinary people who are hurting and confused forgets how to do critical thinking, they forget the importance of finding solutions for everyday problems, to become more conscious of the environment and see what matters at the present moment. We can put away fear, anger, animosity, rudeness, selfishness, and realize that we need to let others survive in their world also. 

  We can make a mental daily commitment to manifest love in society; this is exactly how we transform as individuals and exactly where we can get stuck if we fail to love others. The power for good or evil is associated  with our gift or freewill. It is not a coincident when we hurt others, are rude and disrespectful, when we are trapped into a person who perform evil instead of good. Having a self exalting mindset based on racist beliefs affects society and impacts the family directly. Racism affects us all. We should not ignore the intent behind our actions. When we make fun or a circus of others we are degrading and exhibiting that of an mean, foolish nature, if we do the opposite which is to practice being courteous, kind and humble we become greater and exalting in God's eyes. It is not our duty to exalt ourselves by condemning others. Effects of racism are hatred towards others, disrespectful to others, self degrading, feelings of: depression, shame, hopelessness, anger, frustration, overwhelm. Racism can bring on a personal attack on someone, and even murder, because not everyone knows how to rise above the pain and anguish that is associated with racial discrimination. Through our agency of freewill we can adjust our behavior to becoming humane in nature, to enable us to predict our future and watch wonderful things manifest in our lives, instead of the karma that follows us when we are consistently hurting others and living recklessly . With God all things are possible. Try to focus on doing your part in making society better where you are, because it is everyone's responsibility. Life gets more complicated when we don't focus on what really matters. 

Performing critical thinking: Setting boundaries for success. 

Self evaluation: Identify abusive behaviors and debilitating conditions.

We need strong men who respects women and does not take away her basic human right. Some things we cannot do on our own we all have need for one another. How can we help someone else, encourage them to love themselves for who they are? How can we become resilient, to disassociate ourselves from the seductions, the lust, the self exalting behaviors and disassociate our thoughts from our self centered tendencies and see the need of others, especially the less fortunate, those among us who are sick, suffering, facing hopelessness, not able to work. Mothers who are caring for children need support from their husbands, and the men in their lives. Think about how you can create a bit of gratitude and experience a force of  the supernatural  in their lives. If you help them in their endeavors, their vision and need to chase their dreams can come through. It is a gratifying feeling of fulfillment that we feel when we stop to help another person who is struggling. This is how we experience being human, humility with a form of true happiness.

 We can choose to become no longer a victim; but instead become a motivator, influencer.

I will start by saying that I see myself as an introvert but most times there is so much I have to say. Well public speaking is certainly a skill that we acquire from doing it constantly. And I haven't been doing this, because it was all about the books for me and finishing my doctorate degree. I know that eventually I will have to spend more time talking to people and maybe public speaking will be something that I like to do someday. I like meeting people and I like interacting with people even when the conversation is not resonating well.  when people are not polite there is a part of me that wants to understand people, and to see things through their eyes. There is a part of me that wants to know people and to understand why they do things. Somehow I like the moment when I can detect that people are not being honest with themselves, and I will try to make them see things differently, and I want to be there to see whether or not they will allow themselves to becoming enlightened. I like when people choose to be open minded about life. I like experiencing the feeling of being in the presence of people with kindred spirits. Whenever I meet difficult people I am ready for the spiritual challenge and not going to hold back on speaking up and defending myself or others for that matter. I will take this perfect opportunity to take a stand, to speak up and have my voice heard. Even though I may be struggling to be in control of my emotions, I see the need to be respectful, and ignore bad behavior and intimidation from people.  I am used to internal suffering, yeah,  but there is a raging part of myself that wishes that people were more polite and accepting of everyone. If people would only try to be more respectful and kindhearted, we would experience more joy and happiness among us. I have realized that bullies are actually cowards who have challenges,  insecurities and battling negative feelings about themselves and they tend to want to pass those feelings to someone else, so they feel empowered. People who want to laugh at you or point out flaws in you are trying to make themselves feel better; when, on a subconscious level they are feeling a lack of self acceptance and of failure, they hate themselves. So they are trying to point out flaws in you because that's what makes them feel better.  Being a consultant and answering the call is not an easy task because of the different personalities one have to deal with. Sometimes  the pain of not speaking up, when the spirit call on me to do so, is what pushes me to speak up and have a voice. We are all wonderfully made and naturally blessed, with the ability to love unconditionally like a child.  Just like it all began; but along the way we were led into the direction of darkness and all manner of selfishness, sin and mischievousness, confusion, but however this is how we develop as human. Some may learn to hate, and cultivate evil, instead of learning to love and accept others as equal and as worthy. Hatred, is not Godly nor is it a healthy feeling. And God condemns those who hate and spread hatred. So who is the origin instigator of hate? Where does hatred come from? Ans: the enemy of mankind, the devil. Those who follow Satan/the devil to do evil deeds, to be merciless, unforgiving, lacking in compassion, will at the end be in a state of confusion, alone, abandoned, lost.   

Cultivating a wholesome sensation of gratitude: Be kind to one another with humility and love

To me the best way to open up and create a pleasantness around us is to be kind, respectful, heartfelt, merciful, polite and to smile. I feel connected and show appreciation and respect just by smiling.  We need to do more of the smiling because it lets people know that you are not judging them and that you are accepting them for who they are. Smiling is a form of communication, that creates an atmosphere of humility and love, and people feel hurt when you don't smile back. But being judgmental, unwelcoming, having a straight face or a cow face is even better than saying something negative that is cold and down-rating.  Sometimes it is better to be invisible and silent, just staying comfortable and safe, being a humble person, who it not the aggressive in-your-face kind of individual. So when people treat you like you are invisible it is somewhat good for you, if you think about it. See why there is a purpose for introverts, who are people who delights in peace and quiet; rather than having to fight with someone who wants to bring out the worse in them. It is safer to be just present, observing while trying to understand, instead of trying to be understood and seen as an in-genuine person. You want to be safe from vicious, vindictive evil prone people, who will wish for you to be victimized, threaded down, underfoot. God forbid for us to be downcast,  and revealed in such degrading manners (Ephesians 4: 32).

Prayer to renew faith in God

The Lord is my fountain of life. I will fear the Lord and keep my tongue from evil and my lips from speaking deceit, I will depart from evil and do good. Whatever I am going through I will seek peace and pursue it, I will not be afraid of those who may seek to harm me, my life is preserved from fear of the enemy. God's favor will forever be with me because I am humble and I trust him to deliver me. When you are favored by God , rest assured that your enemy will be put to shame who seek to devour your soul. Rescue me from destruction and my life from the lions. Let the enemy who seek to destroy my life be ashamed and brought to mutual confusion. Let them go backward , those that intend to do evil, let them be caught in their own trap and brought to dishonor. God will prolong my (our) life and lengthen my (our) days as well for his mercy and truth will preserve me. Whenever I am in trouble I call upon God and he will honor my call and hasten to deliver me. God will shower me with long life and show me his salvation because I trust and have faith in him. His loving kindness is better than life. I will praise him with my lips and will acknowledge his tender mercy over my life. God has forgiven my sins, and he is willing and ready to heal all my diseases. God has deliver me from destruction and crowned me with loving kindness and tender mercy. God has satisfied me with good things so that my youth is renewed like the eagles. Almighty God teach me to discern your voice and to always be ready to answer your call. We thank you for the holy spirit, by his presence within us we are blessed and also through Jesus Christ the light of the world (2 Corinthians 3:3). 

Explaining spiritual warfare

I think bearing out your individual perspective on things and engaging in conversations is tough especially when the environment is corrupt and you are trying to communicate with someone who thinks that you have to be oppressed and treated as inferior, and trying to diminish your confidence. I find this behavior a bit too inhumane and much worst; when it is being taught to children. Staying peaceful will sometimes mean seeing myself as an introvert, and keeping my emotions intact, and the moments of the day fly by pleasantly. There are moments when people are facing hostility for just being in public and in the path of a certain stiff neck people. Everything changes sometimes in an atmosphere of lofting and it presents a different life with a foreign set of rules. Sometimes it's racial biases, that is our problem, as we continue to tolerate racial stereotypes, and to treat other people as outcasts. Sometimes I am so deep into my faith, and I have a mysterious and disciplined way of guarding myself in a here and now by exhibiting a quiet persona about me, a form of invisible persona just feelings things and getting by, knowing that God will show me the path. And I think when the rules change I become an introvert to find protection from difficult moments of turbulence and shame. I am never ashamed of being me, but rather ashamed of the questionable individuals misled or deliberately misleading others. God Almighty will give life to those who ask of him. We are responsible for our decisions and for the choices that we make. 

Prayer to renew faith in God

I choose life because sin is death, but righteousness is life everlasting. I asked God for life and he bestow life unto me so that like the trees in the fields I am renewed every morning. Amidst the chaos, goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life, because I will continue to allow God to be the strength of my life. My life and breath are in your hands Lord. God's favor is always on those who are eager to do your will, and wants to bring value unto others, because in God's eyes we are beautiful and worthy of life. God is the giver and the fountain where life flows upon the earth. I choose the word of God, I seek His truth, His wisdom, I choose to do good. We have to endeavor to seek after the things that are good, like helping others, to be kind, show compassion and love to those who are suffering.  It is God's desire that we love one another which is the greatest admonishment and will of God Almighty. I thank you lord for giving me the will to bring prosperity to thy people and to seek success. I will speak to the mountains that is placed before me and they will obey and then be set in another place. My heart will never depart from you Lord, for I will always serve you, God Almighty.

Explaining spiritual warfare

God's word is a comfort in my affliction, his word has given me life in abundance. Those who delight in God's law and remember his precepts will not perish in their affliction.  God will not allow his people to endure what they cannot stand. God will prepare a way of escape to those who seek after him and give them strength enough so that they can bare it. God is the controller of the Universe, the world became and appeared by His utterance, of His very word. We also have the power to speak into and to create our own lives, power is given unto us when we are grounded in spiritual alignment. Like God we are endowed to speak into existence unseen things, and we can command change, changes that are good for the betterment of Humanity. Through the eyes of faith we can see the promise even from afar off. We have to embrace it when we are given this gift of knowing what is to come and when we can see His guidance and His wisdom through us. Those of us who do not feel his presence may come boldly before God asking in faith that they can taste and see His presence and His goodness for mankind.  God's love will shelter you and His care will preserve your life and keep you from perishing, and you will lift up your hands in prayer and bow low before him; for evermore.

Prayer to renew your faith

Save me Lord because I trust in thee, show me your salvation. Because of my faith I am pleasing to God and he will reward me because I seek diligently after Him. God will possess my soul from here on now, onward. I am in heir of the same promise to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, because my delight is in the presence of God Almighty.  I will escape any boundages, I will walk through my trials on dry ground and my enemies will not lay hold of me, neither will they bring me to shame. My God will encircle and throw down the wall that is set to entrap my soul and hinder the progress of His people. God will Give unto His people all that he has promised and He will withheld nothing from them who are faithful. My God will shelter me from the harm that is set to entrap me and I will keep my eyes on Him who is invisible, but omnipresent, most powerful, omnipotent and omniscience.  I am established and anointed by God and so I seek after His heart and His desire upon my life. I declare by faith that I will walk through my trials on dry ground and my enemies will be drowned. 

Explaining spiritual warfare

Reformation : Reaching resolution by continuing to encourage others.

What are your choices on social issues? This is the road that reach home.

By faith we can be made whole, I find people to be way too afraid of change. Although we at times realize that or belief system is not ethical we still continue on with the false destructive attitude, that is so damning to our character. We can overcome such complexity in society by being educated and knowing yourself. A keen attitude can be seen as coy to some who was caught off-guard. They do not always expect  to find someone who is willing and ready to push back, and so this can be an awkward situation. Sometimes being meek, ignoring the nag, self exalting, mean treating evoking person can be a blessing, keeping you focused and out of unpleasant confrontations. True struggle is in fact a daily issue, how do you react when you find yourself in a situation when you are facing rejection, from possible anybody who simply think that they measure up; and that mean that they could push you around. On a daily basis, much too often, we have to see people who thinks that there is a human measure of value, that comes with race, and based on the appearances , ethnicity, color of skin.  The way a person thinks reveals who they are, as selfish, self exulting, ego driven, but they are; uneducated in the faith, and due to their ignorance reflecting their own insecurities onto others. Critical people are also unhappy with themselves and are their worst enemies. You have to love yourself before you can love somebody else, and to learn the value of knowing people from the inside out; it is a mistake to judge a book by its cover; aha. Critical vain people likes trolling, and are quite vicious in the ways they carry out their mischief. How can you teach that person to feel accountable for the suffering they are causing others? (Matthew 13 39-43) How do you bring this kind of change to a world that enjoy the evil more than the good? (John 14 : 1-31).

Prayer to renew faith in God

The spirit of God has made me and the Almighty God gives me life. God will keep my life from perishing and he will send angels watching over me, to protect me list I dash my feet against a stone. God will send help when I call upon him. I wait upon the Lord! God will show me the right path of where I have to go and keep me sheltered in times when the way gets difficult and dangerous. And my lips will praise Him all the days of my life and for life everlasting. lord for prosperity I know that I will flourish, because I live in the days of the messiah, I will have prosperity and God's grace, because of Jesus and because of my faith. I will receive healing and abundance of life. God bless me indeed. My desire is in God and I please God through my faith. Because of my faith I am pleasing to God, and my reward of life everlasting is made for me because I am diligent in my search for truth.

Explaining spiritual warfare

How do you handle resistance that follows you on a daily basis, and is there at any and all given moments, like sometimes the air you breathe? I say given moments, because life is so uncertain, we do not know what will happen at the next moment of our lives, we can face mishaps, illness, accidents and even death. This day could be our last day in this life, the next moment could be the moment we take out last breath. When will we face our reality and the reality we impose unto others. How can you escape racism and it's biases towards you when (racism awaits) it is happening, when you haven't even said a word or even arrived? Well I know that God is always watching us and intervening in our lives bring protection. When people are trying to cut you off or push you back, I believe that angels are watching over us. Every step we take God is there to rescue and see us through. We are always protected by good; and once we recognize that we are not doing this spiritual fight alone we can become immune to the brutal aspects of society, and the hearts that is so hardened by unfounded hatred. 

We can create ourselves with the personality that will rise above the fear of rejection and create a person who can rise over the strongholds placed upon their lives by others. People who are prone to bullying others will always convince themselves to think that you are vulnerable and they will push hard in a brutal way to intimidate you. This wicked racially biased intent to diminish others, instead of lifting them, is so selfish. I like calling people out, and make them become aware of the ways that they lack, err in character. And show them the realization that their behavior is a naïve, selfish, demonic attitude to display in public. Hoping that the power of God will transform them from one who disappoints; trusting in myself that I can make them think differently and to open their hearts to find and harvest love in the world. My faith override my fears! We all are called to receive an anointing. My testimony increases my faith and the more I hear the word of God and work to manifest his will, the stronger my faith.   Even though I go through tribulations and difficult times in my life I trust that I will be able to overcome; because we are never alone when we believe and have faith in God Almighty. I have seen real evidence that my God is real and he is watching over me  and all those who acknowledge him. My life and my breath is in the hands of God and in his word I meditate day and night. Discover yourself and join me in bringing love and harmony in the world!

Explaining spiritual warfare

I am a stewardess of love, and I love who I am becoming.  Like others, I may think I don't have to change much about myself, we all tend to believe that we don't need to change; but no one is perfect, and so I know I can be complex or seen as difficult in some ways. Sometimes we don't see the changes that we need to make in ourselves, mostly because we try to stay focused on our story, and our feelings. I just feel the need to be connected with people and to help people realize that life can become fulfilling without us destroying or competing with one another. With freedom and free will, we can experience wisdom about spirituality, and God. We can begin to see others as free spirits, instead of having people among us who are struggling.  To become a better person and not channeling out bad energy. We have to each humble ourselves before God, instead of trying to look better or clinging to a feeling of a false unmerited vain existence, superior complex that does not come from God, and is only bringing us down, into lesser human conditions raging hell on earth. We are all worthy of respect  and love for ourselves, and not made to feel inferior about ethnicity or handicaps. We can take out the defensiveness and frustrations and build growth and a positive attitude about life. God Almighty wants us to stand firm and be bold in our faith. God wants to renew our strength every morning, to find joy, happiness, prosperity, peace and preserve our health. 

Our Mission Story at Kibosh/Kybosh -Removing Barriers

I started Kibosh/Kybosh by writing poetry about racism, and the effects of racism in the world and in our communities here in America. And as my love for writing grew, I began writing educational books for children because I wanted to bring a unique kind of learning to children. I have been writing a fascinating set of books for learning [starting from an early age], and as I indulge in my writing I became lost to my troubled environment and about the negative things that was a distraction to me as an individual. I was able to use my experiences to include information that is useful for learning in the evolving education curriculum and realized that through writing I have found an escape, although this inner peace is not permanent, but yet a bit of joy and satisfaction had entered my life and changing my perspective about myself. It is however important that I believe in myself as I face hostility from evil people out there in public, wherever I go. The happiness, and happy moments in life is not always constant and so we have to learn to cope with the ups and downs, good and bad memories that we go through along the way. The journey through life in not easy to travel and so having a level head is necessary. Once again I was able to smile like I was used to doing and had a song in my heart. This feeling of well-being created the positive atmosphere  I needed to foster a clear mind for writing. Kibosh/Kybosh is a learning institute for reading, learning to manage time and to understand the world we live in. 

At Kibosh/Kybosh we teach, encourage, and practice human rights. I see the need for human rights to be understood and practiced in society. My goal is to devote myself to telling others about their duty to practice equal rights to everyone regardless of their race and gender. As a certified Human Right consultant I will create awareness of the importance of gaining knowledge, because wisdom is essential for personal growth to be achieved. Teaching and learning human rights will instill values, cultivate men who respects women and women with dignity. To awaken a dying world and bring forth a dignified race of humanity, we will have to give instructions concerning human rights and the need to practice them. 

Ventures And Goals

When we have achieved specific goals we will open out training department which includes an after-school and summer learning for all school age children. This is of top priority alongside my writing agenda. Looking forward to making an impact in the field of education and helping each child acquire the basic skills for learning. 

Addressing questions about families with a new agenda and image. 

In response to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAGkOggY_Sk&list=WL&index=1

Women have survived the period of suffrage in the United States of America and elsewhere. Those were the times when women were not allowed to go to school, except for basic education. Woman simply was allowed to operate a vehicle, without a man present. Women were also not allowed to vote. Women could only ride with family, they could not work, was strictly told to stay home have children and learn how to sew and to become home makers. Also women was not allowed to speak or take office at religious gathering. The gender biases enabled men, but oppressed women. As a result women was not allowed to dream, or to embark on a career. While these gender biases are indoctrinated and practiced in some cultures we also find cultures that have done away with this uncertain forms of rules and practices.  The Barbie movie encourages women to pay a little more attention to themselves and to discover their worthiness, potential and beauty from within. The emergence of the Barbie Doll brought forward the theory that women can think for themselves and that we are capable of being more than mothers. 

 Today, women have gone through tremendous changes, seeking to better themselves, and are an essential part of the working class. There are more women seeking a career than ever before, and cases of battering, victimizing and spousal abuse are being handled effectively. We have to see this as divine beauty. There is no limit to how far women can go, with and without the royal crown male alongside us. We have become a species of less stress individuals that co-depends on each other in the home unit, and does not believe in victimizing women because of the gender bias that has plagued humanity in previous times.The home family unit is the greatest entity on Earth and it's imperative that it be honored, preserved in a nurturing atmosphere of love, peace, and honor. Motherhood and fatherhood sometimes come with the feelings of being stuck, it is an experience that you may never understand until you have lived through it. Parenthood is a huge undertaking which requires planning ahead of time; not that you cannot make it happen, but that will require spiritual faith and trust, unconditional true love, respect, patience and lots and lots of sacrifices. The new Barbie movie is keeping us updated as we guide our young generations into becoming their best selves. Join us in creating a better world for future generations of men and women who decide to coexist alongside one another. 

The Movie Barbie: This movie is to lift up women and inspire women to realize that we are not just baby makers and destined to become only home makers. Dominating men have kept women victimized for too long, as a mother I know the value of motherhood but my experience taught me that I had to find myself and that I am to become much more than a mother. Today I have accomplished much more for my success, and healing myself from the self pity that I once felt. Yes being a mother is still my greatest accomplishment but I pushed myself further and was able to become liberated and to seek and find more purpose in my life. We have been mistreated, held down by all categories of men whose agenda is to classify women as just baby makers and house maids. We demand respect moving forward. 

Our Duty Is To Our Children!

There is a great lack of the type of men that is depicted in the bible, and of course, I know that there are good examples of good, kind, loving, or some men would rather be identified as God-fearing men, and homes with mothers solely dedicated to raising the children. I was raised in a home like that. We are spiritual by nature and we are all good, therefore we can find goodness in our hearts. I said that intending to say that although an individual may not believe in An Almighty God, above all others, he or she still can experience a kindred spirit. We can all learn to seek after truth and to help make a difference in the world. I was a stay at home mother, but I went back to school as soon as my youngest child entered kindergarten. I remained a lifelong learner today because I have a passion to gain wisdom about life, to understand the world and so have something to teach others from my experiences. I have survived many hostile environments, partly do to the fact that I am from a diverse mix of ethnicity, an outsider, is how I sometimes feel. I was quite attractive and intelligent and growing up to become who I am today was not an easy journey. I do believe that I am still this beautiful creature of God, and I am not ashamed of my body, or the person that I am today. I do not believe in the idea that women should be ashamed of their body. I believe that women and men were created to walk side by side, but our world has brought us low and because of that women have at times suffered emotionally, become abused sexually, and become dominated by men, who do not have the capacity to be wholesome and of a sound mind and character. I do not want to pass this life without helping in making a difference in the relationship between men and women. 

Mothers: A love like no other

There is a great price we pay as mothers, by the ways that we are treated by our baby's fathers, boyfriends, husbands, people in society, teachers in schools, in laws, and in other areas. Mothers taking a stand and saying enough, and thinking bigger about themselves is worthy of a standing ovation. Women are sometimes led to feelings of shame about their bodies. But the woman body is naturally ordained by God to carry life, and there is nothing dirty or shameful about a women. When it comes to human existence and of reality, there is by far nothing better, more important and stronger than a woman. The exploitation of women had come to a point where women have lost their respect and value in the world. There is a lack in educating, especially boys, about sex, personal hygiene, and health care. We have to teach that body odor is usually or rather naturally coming from chemical germ reactions on the outside of the body, bad smell, foul odor is the body tells us  that we are ill and have an infection and indicates the need to find healing. Our bodies are programmed to clean itself from the inside out, our: eyes, nose, ears, our skin, our male and female sex organs all function in that manner. If the natural odor of your sister, brother, mother or father, son, or daughter is offensive to you, it is just nature's way of protecting you from each other. When you find the right person, you will not be negatively affected by their individuality, their looks and body odor, you will instead become attracted and probably aroused by that. All humans like animals have body odor and so it is necessary that we practice good hygiene and stay-healthy habits. The misconceptions that girls, women are dirty, smells bad, is causing our world to become plagued with younger generations that are outspokenly disgusted, confused about sex, sexuality, the nature of sexuality- (XX, XY chromosomes), process of procreation, and about sexuality and gender. Our world is turning into a sex crazed, emotionally confused planet, truly this is a spiritual attack on Humanity. Men are turning to men and women to women, what a time of confusion we are experiencing in the world! Our world is becoming updated, and women are leveling the scale and becoming equal and resourceful and powerful as God intended. I believe we can come together to change the world.

Although some women who are living comfortably may say that they do not want to be independent or experience equality with men. This comes when there are no deep emotions or trauma in their past. This criteria of wanting independence comes -with both sexes or gender- when there is a feeling of void, no joy or happiness in the home. There are situations where staying at home may come with feelings of frustration, stress, depression, financial difficulties and abuse, abandonment, disappointment, disrespect, neglect and sometimes failure in the marriage which may lead to loss, death, murder/suicide. Of course not all marriages are inspired by God, because of freewill we may use our desires or choosing over other reasoning including God's, but our children are divine for every life came out of divinity. This calls for  women and men who wants freedom and some dignity and respect in their lives, and the love and values they give to the children. Women sometimes have to deal with gaslighting: accused of being the problem, not being satisfied and difficult to deal with; when you are simply saying that you are not happy or wanting change. A woman may feel abandoned by society purely because the system seems to forget her existence. To the world she is silently invisible, she depends on the man to provide for the home. Sometimes the man is not capable of being a good provider, not having a stable salary or job, leads to frustration and disharmony. Because she is not whom we call free radical woman, she is expected to be happy. Success in family is being able to raise healthy wholesome children, who are both physically and mentally stable. This is not easy to achieve but with divine help and guidance we can hope to do the best we can for the children. With God all things are possible.

I understand the criteria that comes with staying at home and raising children. The time that I spent with my growing children was, and will always be time well spent, and that's a normal and healthy feeling of motherhood. The laughter of children is like heavenly fragrant energy. Children are wonderful gift from divinity or from above. However, everything we do is happening at God's impeccable timing; with patience and reason, we understand that we are full of layers, that we have to uncover to reach the point where we can truly find ourselves; that magical aha moment, where we understand our strengths, as well as our weaknesses. Yet some of us dreamers may want more out of life, to be more fulfilling, more accomplished, more dignity, and to listen to the inner self. When we set higher expectations for ourselves the feeling of accomplishment is a wonderful self fulfilling prophecy.

Prayer to ask God to renew my Faith 

Lord I humbly come before thee wanting to be clean, help me to see others as worthy as I am. And I will hold on to this feeling for always, yes I can and Yes I must. Lord I want to stretch myself and to learn of your desires for mankind, I embark on the journey of progression, to become a warm welcoming person and to take the role of peacemaker. I understand that the journey to immortality requires obedience and benevolent living. Let my experiences become my teacher and guide me through difficult days so that I can forgive myself and others for their transgression. Lord I will speak your words over my life, thoughts and my behavior. I will speak words of encouragement, and sought to gain greater incite keeping my eyes upon you God for you have delivered me from all evil and strongholds placed upon my life. 

Prayer to renew faith in God

Dear God Almighty, Instead of chaos and nightmare I deliver peace, love, and give others the freedom to be themselves. Giving everybody the huge effort to work at being their best selves. To let others live. I know that anger and resentment keeps us from spiritual development. We can have the life that is impressive through you God, the chance of victory is higher and everlasting when we are in thee. I visualize  my self doing good and bringing comfort and love to those who are suffering. I know that when I choose to follow you that I choose Jesus and not the enemy the Devil. I will tread underfoot evil thought and I seek thy blessings. Lord bless me indeed. Let my eyes be on thee and the desires of my heart be only of thee. And let me lift up myself and others in thy grace Oh God Almighty. Let the world magnify your love through your humble servants here on earth, and thus transform this world we live in. Let our days be blessed and protect us from all occurrences and happenings. Let me enhance myself through prayer and let there always be a prayer in my heart. Send us the holy spirit to dwell in our hearts. For I will be strong, because you are the one leader of my  soul. And I will sing of thy presence, it is well with my soul.